You cannot ban me in a way that matters.
A norm in the social sense is a system that assigns value to traits and to those who possess these traits, writes and distributes roles, and punishes for deviating from these roles. A deviant is someone who does not have traits that are considered valuable from the point of view of the norm, who feels…
When I first wrote my principles of activism, I did not have a clear picture of what to do with it, but eventually we made a forum, based on them. The first project we picked up is analyzing studies that Newgon cites on their research page in defense of youth age gap romantic/sexual involvement. Analysis…
Xenosatanism, alternatively spelled as xénosatanism, is an attempted political movement that appeared in November 2021. Its declared goals mainly include altering what the society sees as acceptable and unacceptable when it comes to sexuality and sexual behavior. Some things I will focus on in this post: – Public sex, nudity, and pornography legalized and socially encouraged – Full…
I am trying to give name to a problem in online spaces I started thinking about a while ago. “Based culture” is supposed to be a parallel with “cringe culture”, and these two phenomena are neither synonymous nor mutually exclusive. First, let’s take a look at cringe culture. A Fanlore entry on cringe culture says…
Here are results of a survey I ran from August 24, 2023, till October 7, 2023. The survey was addressing the online paraphiliac community, it was shared in paraphilia tags on Tumblr, on map fediverse, in paraphilia discord servers, element chats, and forums. It consisted of two parts: a list of 75 paraphilias (split in…
This is a restored post from my WordPress. Originally posted on November 30, 2021. I still agree with everything I said here. If you spent at least some time in the map community, you probably saw this image at least once. Sometimes it is used as an argument that being a hebephile is actually “normal”,…
I will preface this text by saying that I am a paraphiliac (including map + zoo), transid (including transage), pro consang, and multiple other things that are grouped under “radqueer” by those who do use this term. I also do not have a problem with those who describe their individual paraphilias as queer. The term…
Several months ago I started working on principles for my own activist group I hope to have. It would be the first time I actually participate in any organized political work, as opposed to doing something on my own or co-working with other m/yaps apolitically (nnia administration, etc.). Even though I want to do m/yap…
I’m again coming back to old topics and trying to say the same thing in new words, in hopes that it brings more attention to this aspect of the community. This post will heavily overlap with my post on love nihilism, as well as an older post about some unfortunate tendencies in pro c spaces…
I spoke a lot about my problems with the concept of norm and people who proudly identify themselves as normal, and I explained my main point briefly – existence of a norm implies existence of abnormality, and no matter how many experiences and identities you manage to push into the norm, there will always be…