• Anonymous askbox

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    • Someone asked:
      minor from last question (the one who wanted to kiss you platonically, still do) u are so fucking cool??? like actually??? ur epic :3 I wanna be ur friend (I hope to God I’m not becoming parasocial towards u I dont wanna be weird) I just aghshdfhhfdsj ur so cool!!!!
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        I’m glad you like something about me. Just a little thing though – I don’t actually prefer u/ur pronouns. I use full you/your second person pronouns.
    • Someone asked:
      WHY THE FUCK DO I WANT TO KISS YOU (PLATONICALLY) WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY AGHHHHHH why am I a MINORRR FDJJFSDJDFSJKLF I’m sorry
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        We rarely know why we want such things. I hope you have fun with it though.
    • Someone asked:
      Is it hard to run a blog?
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        It’s stressful. I worry about a lot of hosting-related things.
    • Someone asked:
      Also really nice profile picture!
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        Thank you. I traced it from an AI generation, though.
    • Someone asked:
      What is something you look forward to?
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        Right now, in the immediate future – something tech-related to be in stock. In general, probably stronger para activism and a better world.
    • Someone asked:
      A lot of fish, but my favorites are marlin, tuna, and stingrays.
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        I’m mostly a shark guy, but I have a partly non-para fascination with salmon.
    • Someone asked:
      TY for making flags for some more obscure attractions (fish)
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        No problem. What kinds of fish are you into?
    • Someone asked:
      I’m also yto transage, actually biological middle aged identifying as senior aged. I’ve actually been finding it harder to find online communities for people like us rather than easier. Do you know of yto transage communities, online resources, or offline communities or resources that you can share?
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        Unfortunately, I do not know any specific communities for ytos.
    • Someone asked:
      What are your pronouns? Can’t find it stated anywhere.
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        Just don’t theythem me, and we’re good.
    • Someone asked:
      I’m curious if you ever hear the voice of God,which was imprinted on your soul at Conception,in your peacefull moments that are unimpeded by chemicals or external stimuli? The truth is always simple and never complicated.
      • Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) replied:
        My god is spelled with a lowercase letter, at my conception he did not exist yet, and neither did my soul or literally anything else that has significance for me as a person. I also disagree with your definition of a “peaceful moment” and I don’t think the truth is simple.

    110 responses to “Anonymous askbox”

    1. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Mewow?

    2. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      kill yourself you asshole

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I’m not going to do that specifically because I seem to upset you.

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      Someone

      what do you think about sex offender registries?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I’m against them. Not only it comes with a large reduction in rights (can’t go to certain places, can’t take certain jobs), but this particular group of crimes also has some of the lowest rates of recidivism. So it’s both discriminatory and useless.

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      Someone

      Thoughts on scat?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Not my thing, although there was a time when I tried to test the waters and see if I like scat porn. But I’m fully supportive of those who are into it. It sucks to see how they’re treated online. This is a beautiful orientation that deserves love.

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      Someone

      Several questions: 1: What do you think of getting banned from ask freak u? 2: What are your thoughts on being called a dozer? 3: Are you on Iris’s side or against? You being friends with them kinda caused the weird accusations toward you. (I’m personally pro because I like Iris a lot and believe their haters have done worse) 4: Don’t you have a curioscat? Why can’t you you use that as a replacement?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        1: What do you think of getting banned from ask freak u?

        Well, I’m upset, obviously. I liked that askbox. But I can move on. It’s far from the first, or the biggest things I lost while being in this community.

        2: What are your thoughts on being called a dozer?

        The word was “doxxer”, I assume? The “doxxing” in question was using someone’s name/Discord username, with no addition of any information like last name, location, etc. This person attacked, stalked, and slandered me in 2020, and tried to weasel back into my life from her new account before I found out it was her. Saying who she was and what she did every time she tried something again has been my means of self defense since I found out. What she means when she says “Lecter doxxed me” is “Lecter connected my undercover fedi identity to my past Discord identity under which I was doxxed by antis”, but this does not make the harm I experienced from her any less real, and it does not mean she has not been periodically trying to harm me ever since.

        3: Are you on Iris’s side or against? You being friends with them kinda caused the weird accusations toward you. (I’m personally pro because I like Iris a lot and believe their haters have done worse)

        I am on their side.

        4: Don’t you have a curioscat? Why can’t you you use that as a replacement?

        CC logged me out again, and logging back in through my (three and a half years ago suspended) Twitter is a pain in the ass. I also don’t really trust it not to remove the bug that allows using suspended accounts.

    6. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What are those funky creatures on the anon icons? Did you draw them?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        No, these come with the plugin I use.

    7. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What’s up with NNIA haters? A lot of them keep acting like those on your instance are empty headed fleshbags that obey you or some shit, it’s very confusing.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I can assure you that nobody outside of maybe ten people particularly likes me or trusts me, and a half of these people can’t stand each other.

    8. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      >I’m not going to do that specifically because I seem to upset you.

      Don’t worry, I know where you live, you won’t last much longer. Be worried, you piece of shit.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        You better come here yourself, or you’re a coward.

    9. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Not an ask, but I read your ao3 stuff. I really enjoyed them. It was also quite something to read a work with a people I knew (though not personally, we never talked outside of anonymous asks I’ve sent)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I have two more unfinished works for this universe, and one I finished but never published there.

    10. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Do you plan on publishing more of your fictional works?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I have a blog with other, non-7S related stories elsewhere. But there’s not much there. I’m not really a fiction person.

    11. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What are your thoughts on baby pufferfish

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        It’s a future adult pufferfish, if it gets lucky.

    12. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      You’ve been going through far too much bullshit as of late. Hope things calm down soon

    13. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      So are you really not going to address the claim that you blackmailed people?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I am not going to “address” every rumor that’s coming out of your facial trashcan. I am not a youtube influencer.

    14. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      i cant believe people take that “lecter’s cult” shit seriously i thought it was just a meme (ToT)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        In 2018 we at least had a sense of taste to call it “lecterkin”.

    15. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I don’t want you to make a youtube apology video, a simple “No I didn’t blackmail anyone.”You can even call me any number of insulting things for annoying you, I don’t mind.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I did not doxx anyone. But y’all aren’t taking a “no” for an answer, are you?

    16. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Do you sleep well? Not trying to be creepy, I just noticed the time stamps on your asks say it’s very early in the morning (no judging, I do that too. I’m just curious)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        No, I don’t sleep well, but this has nothing to do with the current situation, nor it is a new problem.

    17. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Anon isn’t even saying “doxxing,” they’re saying “blackmailing.” That’s a different thing but wtf are they talking about? WHO do they think you blackmailed. Challenge for anon, say who that person was and what year this event took in and then you can talk.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        As far as I know, the blackmailing accusation comes from the person who wouldn’t stop sexually harassing people several years ago and had to quit the community because someone seriously didn’t like it.

    18. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      when did you start bleaching your hair?

    19. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      And so the walls around the domain crumble around your head. Who knew keeping around an anti and a doxxer would lead to you becoming one yourself?

      And there was a point in time I liked you. Trusted you.

      How time changes people, doesn’t it.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        “the walls around the domain crumble around your head” is sure a poetic way to say “the Ewgone admin is reporting you to your domain provider because he’s mad at you”. Also, I sincerely hope you get disappointed in everyone the same way you got disappointed in me and start thinking for yourself finally, instead of repeating after your current admiration object.

    20. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Yo, NNIA is apparently mentioned in the comments of some r/transabledcringe post. I didn’t even know there was such a sub

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I knew that place. Reddit is a cesspool of such shit. They just hate it when others don’t want to be normal.

    21. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Im trying to stay out of the drama but the “lecter cult” thing is hilarious lowkey

      It reads like a copypasta

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I really don’t want to lash out at anyone outside of those directly responsible for what’s going on, but I want to warn you I may accidentally do that to people who find this situation funny – because I currently interpret jokes as siding with people who accuse me unless there’s bigger context explained. I’m sorry if this happens to you.

    22. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I’m grateful you’ve made a great place for those with marginalized identities to just hang out and feel the world makes sense for a little while. Due to personal reasons, I can’t join your instance for at least a couple of years. (I’m very technologically illiterate, so too much risk) I hope things calm down for you Comrade.

    23. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What’s Lecterkin?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Do you know what a kin is? Not in terms of relatives, but in terms of the otherkin community. Lecterkin were people claiming to be kin with me, mostly as a joke.

    24. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What plug-in do you use? I like these funky creatures

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        It’s called “Ask Me Anything”. I am still not exactly happy with it, because for some reason I can’t remove the second list of questions that’s under the main one, and it also goes backwards. But I have more things to do than that now.

    25. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Okay now I want to know *how* exactly anon thinks you “blackmailed” that person. This all sounds so vague. It’s unhinged. People aren’t even claiming it on fedi that much it just seems so out of the blue.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        No, I mean that this person themself is saying that. I saw a post. They’re on fedi now.

    26. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I knew what kin is, but I thought it had a different context. That’s interesting to know

    27. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I do hope ewgone gets deplatformed soon. (It has been a week, and they’re still on YouTube somehow)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        It took YouTube a few months to get my account. But I wasn’t very active there, to be honest.

    28. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Ok, I read the lecter kin blog more and I am now confused. They actually hate you?? I am also realizing that is not iris from nnia

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I deleted your earlier ask with the text “Just checked it out, and I very amused!! Plus it’s Iris, my favorite paractivist” from my inbox, so the discussion stays relevant. Yeah, it’s not our Iris, our Iris wasn’t in the community yet at that point.

    29. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      They mentioned Francis too?? (Lecter kin I mean)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar
    30. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What did you post on your YouTube account?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        A general intro into mapness, a review of a particularly annoying bait account, something else. Not much.

    31. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What song have you been playing on repeat lately, if any?<3

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I cycle through music a lot, and I tend to get stuck on a particular song for a day or two. Recently this was “Gloria” by Apostolica.

    32. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      You post digital art sometimes but do you do any art/crafts non-digitally?<3

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        No. I have some insecurities around creating physical objects, because I cannot immortalize them by putting them in a space where they will be seen by a lot of people and can be saved and reshared.

    33. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What’s your favorite flower or plant<3?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar
    34. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      if i tried to apply to the original nnia masto server and never heard anything, does that mean i shouldn’t apply to join the new one?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        What did you say in your application? I reject applications that aren’t specific enough.

    35. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      How do you feel about people being intimidated by you?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        It depends. If you’re someone I like and know well, I’ll be flattered, if you’re a stranger, I’ll likely find it annoying.

    36. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      masto anon: i don’t recall the language but am pretty sure i said i was an ally/possible map. i thought about naming an artist i’m familiar with who has mentioned you as a resource before but can’t recall if i actually did so – wasn’t sure if that would be a violation of the artist’s privacy.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter L.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I don’t remember removing any application from a person who identified themself as a map or an ally. It probably glitched.

    37. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      what do u think about bpd

    38. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Do you have a tumblr?

    39. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      How to argue with pro-cs who say something like “What is so special about this number?”?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        The number is an approximation. I set it at 16 not because something drastically changes in any person at their 16th birthday, but because 1) that’s about when most people are done with puberty, 2) if I set it one year lower, there still would be people saying “but why not one year lower”, and it would repeat every time.

        Also, the idea of the age of consent being 25 is regarded as universally bizarre in the pro c community, meanwhile they themselves will debate whether it should be 3, 8, or 12. They are not immune to numbers either and they should stop acting like they are.

    40. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      How does it make you feel, knowing that I want you to die only after so long screaming in agony that your voice has long since stopped being able to produce sound and your mind has melted into a mad, sparking whorl of thoughtless suffering?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Pretty unimpressed, to be honest. You are not the first who expresses such a desire. And none of you ever moved a finger to make your dreams a reality.

    41. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I noticed your banner on NNIA says Authoritarian Communism, now sure I could read the Wikipedia page, but I’m curious to hear what it means to you, and also how you feel about something like Anarchism. I’ve heard oppositional arguments against you as a person that claimed you were an authoritarian, but I feel like there’s some nuance missing here.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Well, it’s a little more complicated than that, a more correct way to describe my views would be saying I support authoritarian socialism while humanity stills exists as is, and communism without prefixes in a post-human transhumanist society. I am somewhat sympathetic towards anarchism, but this isn’t something that will ever work outside of several communes within a large non-anarchist system, because a society that does not have a mechanic against people leaving to do something else (e.g. build a theocracy in a neighbor village) will fall apart, and a society that does have such a mechanic is not anarchist. But people who call me an authoritarian do not mean that, they mean that I deleted some post or banned someone.

    42. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      are you pro-c?

      also, question: (i support palestine and i am a jew do not worry world) i wanted to know if u are um… antisemetic in anyway, im so sorry i just saw ur pfp and it reminds me of old… bad uniforms im so sorry

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar
    43. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      why are you such a retarded pedophile

    44. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Lecter how do you feel about people on other instances making fun of you? I can’t rlly read if they are laughing at you or with you but it feels mean spirited (such as the friends of lecter thing for example!)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        As a rule of thumb, people who make fun of me are laughing AT me, not WITH me. “Friends of Lecter” are an actual rare exception, because it comes from Grumpy and House, who are actually my friends. Typically it’s not, though. And I don’t like most jokes about me, I consider them harassment, and I don’t accept “in good humor” as an excuse.

    45. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Do you know the band Lord of the Lost? I figured you might like them. Their aesthetic reminds me a little of you.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Yes, I’m a fan. I really like their song “Ruins”.

    46. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I’m curious if you ever hear the voice of God,which was imprinted on your soul at Conception,in your peacefull moments that are unimpeded by chemicals or external stimuli? The truth is always simple and never complicated.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        My god is spelled with a lowercase letter, at my conception he did not exist yet, and neither did my soul or literally anything else that has significance for me as a person. I also disagree with your definition of a “peaceful moment” and I don’t think the truth is simple.

    47. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What are your pronouns? Can’t find it stated anywhere.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Just don’t theythem me, and we’re good.

    48. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      I’m also yto transage, actually biological middle aged identifying as senior aged. I’ve actually been finding it harder to find online communities for people like us rather than easier. Do you know of yto transage communities, online resources, or offline communities or resources that you can share?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Unfortunately, I do not know any specific communities for ytos.

    49. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      TY for making flags for some more obscure attractions (fish)

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        No problem. What kinds of fish are you into?

    50. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      A lot of fish, but my favorites are marlin, tuna, and stingrays.

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I’m mostly a shark guy, but I have a partly non-para fascination with salmon.

    51. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      What is something you look forward to?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Right now, in the immediate future – something tech-related to be in stock. In general, probably stronger para activism and a better world.

    52. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Also really nice profile picture!

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        Thank you. I traced it from an AI generation, though.

    53. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      Is it hard to run a blog?

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        It’s stressful. I worry about a lot of hosting-related things.

    54. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      WHY THE FUCK DO I WANT TO KISS YOU (PLATONICALLY) WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY AGHHHHHH why am I a MINORRR FDJJFSDJDFSJKLF I’m sorry

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        We rarely know why we want such things. I hope you have fun with it though.

    55. Someone Avatar
      Someone

      minor from last question (the one who wanted to kiss you platonically, still do) u are so fucking cool??? like actually??? ur epic :3 I wanna be ur friend (I hope to God I’m not becoming parasocial towards u I dont wanna be weird) I just aghshdfhhfdsj ur so cool!!!!

      1. Anemoen (Lecter A.A. Wierstamann) Avatar

        I’m glad you like something about me. Just a little thing though – I don’t actually prefer u/ur pronouns. I use full you/your second person pronouns.

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