You cannot ban me in a way that matters.
Queerness can be defined as presence of non normative gender preference, presentation, or identity, as well as absence of normative ones. This word can be used in three somewhat distinct ways: 1) as a general umbrella term for all LGBT and adjacent identities, 2) as a personal label, either standalone or interchangeably with some sublabels, 3)…
Something I’ve been thinking about for a while – gathering together all the information I have about kinds of top surgeries you can have. I may fuck something up – so this post will be edited periodically. Double incision with nipple grafts This is the most common and most spoken about kind of surgery. It’s…
I will preface this text by saying that I am a paraphiliac (including map + zoo), transid (including transage), pro consang, and multiple other things that are grouped under “radqueer” by those who do use this term. I also do not have a problem with those who describe their individual paraphilias as queer. The term…
I need a space to store some of the historical facts I found while browsing queer topics, as well as some of my thoughts about them, and I decided I might as well turn it into a blog article. This is going to be much less put together and more like an assortment of historical…
“I support every form of [sexual] self expression, for as along everyone involved is a consenting adult” is something you will hear often if you do any sexuality-related discourse. It is believed to be a very radical and liberating position. However, it is not. Reason number one, the most important and obvious: younger people have…
This is a restored post from my WordPress, originally posted on June 28, 2022. I still agree with everything I said here. As most of you know, I co-admin a social media site, called nnia.space. NNIA stands for “Non-Normative Identities Alliance”, and it is an ideological moment, started by me and Kamil Beylant in 2019…
This is a restored post from my WordPress. Originally posted on December 17, 2020, it has been edited afterwards, and the edit was not captured by archives. However, it was small, and I put it back where it was without loss of sense. If you’re not new to the discourse, you must have heard it…
This is a restored post, initially posted on my now deleted WordPress sometime earlier this year. I still agree with everything I said here. Recently I started noticing more disdainful attitudes to paraphilia as an identity, as an umbrella term for non-normative attractions. The general accusation typically is that “paraphilia” is stigmatizing and medicalizing language,…