You cannot ban me in a way that matters.
Commissioner/performer is a pair of sexual roles I noticed and gave name to. They are supposed to be an addition to other, already described sexual dynamics, such as dom/sub and top/bottom. A commissioner is the person who expresses a request for certain sexual things to be done, “commissions” them. A performer is the person who…
This is a restored post from my WordPress. Originally posted on September 29, 2021. I still agree with everything I said here. A few years ago I made this infographic, trying to explain to myself and to other people how attractions work and can be classified. Soon after publishing it, I started noticing random flaws…