Lecter A.A. Wierstamann
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Tag: contact discourse
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“Big 3” contact discourse – fundamental differences
Continue Reading: “Big 3” contact discourse – fundamental differencesThe problem Recently I’ve been paying more attention to how often the concept of the “big 3” (map, zoo, necro) comes up in contact discourse. There are new stances coined with a view to convey being anti c for the big 3, pro c for the big 3, or being inclusive/exclusionary of those who are…
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Contact discourse basics, 2nd edition
Continue Reading: Contact discourse basics, 2nd editionThis post is basically a reprint of my previous post on the topic, with some new propositions and corrected terminology. Initially I was intending to edit the original, but ended up thinking it’s best to have two versions to document some changes. Contact discourse itself is a discussion of ethics of sexual and romantic acts,…
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Age gap survey results
Categories: New postsContinue Reading: Age gap survey resultsThroughout last year I ran a survey on age gap romantic/sexual experiences. I closed it in January and finally found time and motivation to post the results to my blog. The questions were formulated in the following manner: In addition, I asked people to only report experiences that ended at least 3 years ago. The…
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Contact discourse survey and thoughts
Continue Reading: Contact discourse survey and thoughtsHalf a year ago I made a post titled “Contact discourse basics”, which was meant to provide a reference for how I understand contact stances and how I believe they should be used. I mentioned briefly that these terms have a completely different usage on contemporary Tumblr. I clashed with a cluster of Tumblr users…
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Pro abuse terminology on Tumblr
Categories: Map community politicsContinue Reading: Pro abuse terminology on TumblrI decided to document a recent spike in pro abuse rhetoric on Tumblr. This list will start with xenosatanism, which I already covered in an earlier post. Since appearance of xenosatanism, a certain section of Tumblr gradually became more tolerant towards similar ideologies, often through the means of guilt-tripping and fear of coming off as…
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An anti contact look at youth liberation
Continue Reading: An anti contact look at youth liberationI’d like to preface this text by saying that I don’t believe youth liberation itself to be so strongly tied to contact discourse that talking about it should immediately invoke that discourse and prompt the speaker to identify their stance. Neither any stance by itself, without any wider context clarifying what exactly the person wants,…
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A forum announcement and Newgon claims’ analysis
Continue Reading: A forum announcement and Newgon claims’ analysisWhen I first wrote my principles of activism, I did not have a clear picture of what to do with it, but eventually we made a forum, based on them. The first project we picked up is analyzing studies that Newgon cites on their research page in defense of youth age gap romantic/sexual involvement. Analysis…
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Political polarization and contact discourse
Continue Reading: Political polarization and contact discourseContact discourse is, perhaps, the most widespread and recurrent topic to argue about in most map spaces that have a comparable amount of members with different stances. Other political disagreements between maps sometimes end up hidden behind it, and people ignore that two anti contact or two pro contact maps can have completely incompatible reasons…
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My contact stance
Continue Reading: My contact stanceThis is a restored post from my WordPress. Originally posted on October 11, 2022. I still agree with everything I said here. A little over two years ago I wrote a post here that I titled “My anti contact manifesto”. Despite its name, it was intended solely for inner arguments in the anti contact community…