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Answers So Far..
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Regarding your graphic on kinks, fetishes and other (with specifiers for age, gender, species, etc). Pretty cool graphic. Though, I had some thoughts on it which I will share. The graphic puts objects in the fetish category and while to obviously entirely categorize sexuality would be very difficult (and I think the graphic was pretty decent overall) so I can understand this (and there are plenty of cases of it being more “fetishism” rather than more sexual orientation-like), there is that in which is beyond the level of the typical boundary of fetish as in objectum sexuality. Those who have attraction near identical (except for the subject) to other biological being subjects. There is also the category of those with spirtual beliefs or otherwise beliefs/perceptions in which objects are MORE THAN “just objects” as in consciousness, sentience, individuality and such. Additionally, “fetish” doesn’t really apply for experiences of romantic attractions to objects. The boundary for “fetish” and “sexuality” with objects is a bit tough since it’s not really often taken seriously enough to have clear definitions. Might be that “sexuality” involves MORE attachment (in my investigations of how it may be defined by others and mineself) and of course, more clear in the situations of romantic attractions. I’m mostly rambling here and it’s not too well thought out overall so some stuff in which I say might be a bit “iffy”/could be expanded upon (which I will realize after I submit, of course). I’m not trying to promote any certain change but rather mention this to see how it is you see it as well and all, because I am curious mostly. (More of a “I feel compelled to write something on it” than a “I have a notable specific idea which I want to convey” circumstance) Additionally: on NNIA, explained simply what’s the difference between .space and .cc? Should a .space-r sign up for .cc instead?
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A fetish is a type of sexuality that’s defined as an attraction to non reproductive body parts or inanimate objects. It can be sexual romantic, both, or neither. Seeing it as something inherently less profound or more shallow than an average person’s sexuality is a type of paramisia. “Objectum” is just a different name for objectophilia, I say it as an objectophile who’s capable of a large spectrum of attractions and long term relationships with objects. Nnia.cc is an extension of nnia.space that appeared after the Newgon admin threatened to take us down. The main difference is that it’s completely closed off from the rest of fediverse. You can use either or both.
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What does “anti-contact” mean to you? Could you define it? /genuine question
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Against direct involvement of someone under 16 into sexual or romantic life of someone significantly older (5 and more years older). An older person accessing pornography that features the younger person counts as direct involvement.
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How do you feel your ASPD impacts your relationships or how you perceive relationships, if it impacts them at all?
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It’s hard to say which part is the ASPD and which part is other aspects of me. I know feeling something in tune with my partners does not come naturally to me, but that’s pretty generic.
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the minor (again) good to see you!!! um. I’m here!!!! call me butterfly for now (It/its). Lovely to meet you!!! sorry I’m just really bad at talking. is there anyway to contact you??? you seem so epic. thank you!! -butterfly
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The shortest way to get to me (out of the ones open to the general public) is through my nnia account.
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I was just curious as to how you ensure there aren’t any antis on NNIA? I know there’s the whole mandatory vetting process, but like…I remember it being pretty chill. Is there some other element I’m not aware of? Is it just swatting them out when you find them?
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I ban them when I find them. A lot of them aren’t very convincing long term.
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minor from last question (the one who wanted to kiss you platonically, still do) u are so fucking cool??? like actually??? ur epic :3 I wanna be ur friend (I hope to God I’m not becoming parasocial towards u I dont wanna be weird) I just aghshdfhhfdsj ur so cool!!!!
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I’m glad you like something about me. Just a little thing though – I don’t actually prefer u/ur pronouns. I use full you/your second person pronouns.
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WHY THE FUCK DO I WANT TO KISS YOU (PLATONICALLY) WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY AGHHHHHH why am I a MINORRR FDJJFSDJDFSJKLF I’m sorry
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We rarely know why we want such things. I hope you have fun with it though.
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Is it hard to run a blog?
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It’s stressful. I worry about a lot of hosting-related things.
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Also really nice profile picture!
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Thank you. I traced it from an AI generation, though.
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What is something you look forward to?
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Right now, in the immediate future – something tech-related to be in stock. In general, probably stronger para activism and a better world.
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