My Neospring inbox I have access to on mobile: https://neospring.org/@killthenatural
My local inbox (may respond slowly):
Answers So Far..
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Your MAP Wiki project is intriguing. It states on the main page that you welcome new contributors, but I was unable to find any information regarding how to actually become one. Does the invitation still stand?
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Registrations are closed to prevent antis and spam. I make member accounts for new editors. The invitation still stands, yes. I just would need to talk to you in private.
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why havent you killed yourself
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Why would I? I have evil to defeat.
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are you lithuanian? 🇱🇹
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No, I am not. Why are you asking?
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So do MAPs fall out of love with the children they’re attracted to once they grow up?
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Some do, some don’t. Same as teleios when their crushes start aging. It depends on specifics of one’s preference more than on the exact age of attraction.
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Hello, I hope this question isn’t too insensitive but I am curious about trans-ageness. Is age dysphoria a thing? What does it feel like for you? And how does being trans-age interest with your other non-normative identities? Many thanks!
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I actually have a post about this https://wierstamann.net/2023/07/06/my-yto-transage-experience/ I don’t really touch identity overlaps there, but it does feel very comparable to my transgender identity. I feel like embracing dangerous creep stereotypes is about both being a man and being older for me.
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I have some questions that I feel I need to educate myself on. I’m new to this community, mostly a lurker. I came from a place of hate and finally now I understand. Can you be a pedophile, but feel attraction to children not in a exactly…sexual way? More like romantic attraction or idk… like in a nurturing way? Idk how can I explain that… in a non-sexual way? Or the sexual attraction is needed for pedophilia? Can you still feel attraction to children but adults too? Can it be, primarly an attraction to adults but also to children? If yes, how would you be called? Is pedophile correct? Or pedophile is a term only for people who are primarly attracted to children, like, their “focus” of attraction? Sorry for the million questions, I’m still learning.
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Sorry for not replying to this question for so long. These questions get lost in spam. Yes ace maps exist – I am not ace myself, but I am acespec, and I always first fall for someone romantically, sexually later. Being attracted to both adults and children may be referred to as being non exclusive, and it’s a pretty common experience. And any amount of attraction to children you personally feel is significant enough means you can call yourself a map.
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Hey Lecter, I am a non-offending nepiophile (18 months to 6 years), and I feel like there’s very few of us in the MAP community compared to others. Not sure if you’re going to answer this, but is there anywhere to read MAP erotic-fiction online? It’s mostly protected by free speech (though governments care less and less about that), and I’d rather that than any kind of material that is illegal and might show children suffering actual abuse.
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For now I’d recommend “extreme underage” tags on Archive Of Our Own.
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Lecter, I wish you well. I’ve fallen head over hind legs for you. I love everything you stand for and advocate for. Life best be treating you well, liebe, Fraulin.
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Thank you. Are you a therian? I’ve never seen the “hind legs” expression from a non-therian.
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If teens are 11–17, then why does “teen” porn contain 18 and 19 year olds?
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Porn does not reflect reality adequately.
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Previous asker on objectum. You’re right. I agree. I guess my desire comes from the view to be seen as more legitimate which is a trait of trying to conform rather than change the initial view that “fetish” doesn’t mean less and/or trivial. Good points. I didn’t mean for it to be that way of “less” and was somewhat biased (still somewhat am, but perhaps more willing on progress on this). Fetishists are not less. It was a desire of wanting acceptance, probably but I see rereading that it came from a flawed view of trying to acclimate to existing ideas rather than push for change of no attraction being superior or inferior.
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I wasn’t trying to accuse you of bigotry, I’m sorry if my response came across as harsh. Also, got your CC ask. My blog was down, it does this periodically.
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