You cannot ban me in a way that matters.
Several weeks ago someone sent me an anti kin-for-fun essay, which I promised to do a detailed review on, but didn’t get to it till tonight. You can view the original exchange here. To lay some foundation, being kin with someone/something refers to a sense of identity with a different type of a being (or…
Recently, while re-titling sections on the Map Wiki page about Newgon, I realized we lack a word for a specific type of bigotry and oppression – the one that targets people who underwent sexual abuse. I want to call this phenomenon “antisurvivorism”. I regret not being able to specify sexual abuse in this term, but…
Several months ago I wrote the following post on my Tumblr account, describing the concept of toxic femininity how I see it: Recently I’ve been thinking more about toxic femininity (as a counterpart to toxic masculinity) and how it’s poorly defined.Texts from other people (for example, this) mostly focus on what women affected by toxic…
Tonight I closed the survey I ran for the most of summer. It is the 4th survey in its series, the previous ones, dating 2018, 2020, and 2022 can be viewed on my older blog post. This year I attempted some modifications – I separated the gender identity question and the assigned gender question and…
The title of this post, “youth intimate abuse”, is a term I came up with as a more inclusive and accurate alternative to “child sexual abuse”. As many of you know, I was sexually abused from age 11 to approximately 13-14 (I don’t remember the exact ending date). I did not realize this was sexual…
In the society the concept of violating another person may be regarded as either normative or deviant, depending on the context. Normative interpretation most often takes place in case of punitive/corrective actions towards a deviant or another marginalized figure. In these cases the violation perpetrator is typically someone, regarded by the society as fit to…
Several months ago I opened a survey targeting specifically zoophiles not affiliated with the zeta community. I was curious about the species preference and I provided two identical lists of animal species – one to check all species you find attractive, another to pick the most attractive one – as well as a field for…
I decided to document a recent spike in pro abuse rhetoric on Tumblr. This list will start with xenosatanism, which I already covered in an earlier post. Since appearance of xenosatanism, a certain section of Tumblr gradually became more tolerant towards similar ideologies, often through the means of guilt-tripping and fear of coming off as…
Several months ago I came across a Tumblr post that described what the author called “positionality”. They defined it as occupying a social position that does not necessarily correspond to your identity, being perceived as a member of a group you do not actually consider yourself a part of, and being affected by benefits and…