• On mapmisia and ableism

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    If you’ve been out as a map in any context even briefly, you probably were told that your attractions are a sickness and that you need to “get help”. Or maybe you saw the Wikipedia page on pedophilia, one of the few pages with restrictions on editing, that states pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder. In…

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  • Maps and collective responsibility

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    This is a post from my WordPress. The original upload date is January 23, 2020. There’s nothing technically wrong here, although my analysis was a bit shallow. It’s not that uncommon to find an anti that says something along the lines “I was sexually abused as a kid, so I have a reason to hate…

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  • Commissioner/performer dynamics

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    Commissioner/performer is a pair of sexual roles I noticed and gave name to. They are supposed to be an addition to other, already described sexual dynamics, such as dom/sub and top/bottom. A commissioner is the person who expresses a request for certain sexual things to be done, “commissions” them. A performer is the person who…

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  • Педофилия для русских

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    Это восстановленный пост, изначально написанный мной где-то в середине весны 2020 для вскоре удаленного сайта pedophilia.info. Некоторые особенности терминологии здесь утратили смысл со временем. Педофилия — слово, звучащее для русского уха жутковато. В основном благодаря СМИ, с настойчивостью, достойной лучшего применения, пугающим народ историями про насильников. Но любую проблему можно рассмотреть не только с новостной…

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  • Nemi’s story

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    This is a restored post from my WordPress. The original date is October 12, 2020. There are some small things wrong here, for instance, the AAM identity existed in the 00s and was merely recoined on Tumblr. But the general message still stands. On Twitter you can find dozens of accounts that introduce themselves as…

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  • Insufficiency of “consenting adults” as an argument

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    “I support every form of [sexual] self expression, for as along everyone involved is a consenting adult” is something you will hear often if you do any sexuality-related discourse. It is believed to be a very radical and liberating position. However, it is not. Reason number one, the most important and obvious: younger people have…

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  • Sourhoneys – a scam story

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    This is a restored post from my WordPress. Originally posted August 22, 2020. None of what’s written here is relevant anymore, but yet it presents a curious story. This is the text of my YouTube video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5opHFeRHl3k ), as promised. So, sourhoneys. The big scandal of these couple of days. It seems like a classic…

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  • Against child/adult marriage

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    This is a restored post from my WordPress, originally posted on August 3, 2022. I still agree with what I said here. Several years ago, while writing my “Rebellion vs assimilation” post, I referred to gay marriage legalization as an example of rebellion – because for me, with all my Russian social experience, it seemed…

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  • What are the non-normative identities?

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    This is a restored post from my WordPress, originally posted on June 28, 2022. I still agree with everything I said here. As most of you know, I co-admin a social media site, called nnia.space. NNIA stands for “Non-Normative Identities Alliance”, and it is an ideological moment, started by me and Kamil Beylant in 2019…

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  • Zoo flags

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    This is a restored post from my WordPress. Originally posted September 10, 2022. I still consider everything I said here correct. Sometime before I promised someone to make a post, explaining current zoophilia flags. There already exists a post about map flags on Map-Wiki – here it is – but since a zoo wiki does…

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