You cannot ban me in a way that matters.
I’m again coming back to old topics and trying to say the same thing in new words, in hopes that it brings more attention to this aspect of the community. This post will heavily overlap with my post on love nihilism, as well as an older post about some unfortunate tendencies in pro c spaces…
I spoke a lot about my problems with the concept of norm and people who proudly identify themselves as normal, and I explained my main point briefly – existence of a norm implies existence of abnormality, and no matter how many experiences and identities you manage to push into the norm, there will always be…
So the other day I received an anon ask from someone who introduced as an ex Newgon member, and this ask caused a large drama. The anon took issue with Newgon defending sex acts with babies, and I responded that it’s a part of a bigger issue, and posted the ask and the response to…
This is a post for picture-related discussions while image viewing on nnia isn’t working. Para pride month (30.07.2023) I completed the calendar I started working on a month ago or so. Still a bit of time left to fix it. (01.08.2023) The images are back now, but I’m still posting the finalized version for reference.…
In my previous post titled “Paraphilia as an identity” I made a brief reference to the origins of this term. I didn’t know enough to go into detail about it, so I just said “It was made up by a researcher (although not a doctor) Friedrich Salomon Krauss in 1904 to denote any non-procreational sexual behavior”.…
If you’ve been following inner map community discourse for the past year, you’re probably aware of the flag drama. Partly covered on the Map Wiki here and here, it gives an interesting example of political dishonesty. In 2009 a map group Newgon tried to host a map flag contest. This was not the first attempt…
As some have seen, there appeared two alternatives to the term “map”. “Yap”, “youth attracted person”, coined by Lilitha around the last New Year, and “myap”, “minor/youth attracted person”, a blend, crated by Pappy a few days ago. I want to try to compare them, their strong and weak sides, with as little bias as…
Paraphiliac disorders are an unnecessary and harmful diagnostic category. I have written about this multiple times, but never before put all of my thoughts in one place, so here we are. A while ago I made this infographic about the pedophilic disorder specifically: I believe it makes my key point clear enough: this term lumps…
If you’ve been out as a map in any context even briefly, you probably were told that your attractions are a sickness and that you need to “get help”. Or maybe you saw the Wikipedia page on pedophilia, one of the few pages with restrictions on editing, that states pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder. In…
This is a post from my WordPress. The original upload date is January 23, 2020. There’s nothing technically wrong here, although my analysis was a bit shallow. It’s not that uncommon to find an anti that says something along the lines “I was sexually abused as a kid, so I have a reason to hate…